I was abused verbally by my father who always said I was nothing and I will never achieve nothing until today I'm 40 he says i'm a failure and make me cry even if I know he is the one who failed and I'm happy with my life, but he has the power to disarm me, it is terrible! I didn't talk with him for years, but he is very sick (I don't live with him!!) and I saw him little every year but he still treat me so offensively.
I was molested and raped after in life, not by him. But I understand you society thinks it is ok for my father to mistreat me, and for this other men to try or succeed in rape me, because i'm a woman.
I think words are brutal can hurt and liberate.
I loved cumberbitches because as men can be "Bad mother fuckers" and that is empowering why "BAD bitch" don't
also we Cumberbach fans are different from other fans, it is said that Ben is not really beautiful, himself doesn't believe it.
we see more then the simple blond poster guy! we can see quality we see beauty, because we observe we listen. we are awesome!! we are great bad bitches!
but I think Ben who study in a posh British school even if he isn't posh himself he doesn't get the term like in whole sense of it and also apparently he is very shy and had not to much confidence in himself he thinks good actor, not beautiful or sexy.
maybe he needs us to understand openness and new visions of words, of views on beautiful, of empowering and true strength!
i think Martin get that part better, but we are here for Ben to teach him
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Date: 2013-08-13 12:05 am (UTC)I was abused verbally by my father who always said I was nothing and I will never achieve nothing until today I'm 40 he says i'm a failure and make me cry even if I know he is the one who failed and I'm happy with my life, but he has the power to disarm me, it is terrible! I didn't talk with him for years, but he is very sick (I don't live with him!!) and I saw him little every year but he still treat me so offensively.
I was molested and raped after in life, not by him. But I understand you society thinks it is ok for my father to mistreat me, and for this other men to try or succeed in rape me, because i'm a woman.
I think words are brutal can hurt and liberate.
I loved cumberbitches because as men can be "Bad mother fuckers" and that is empowering why "BAD bitch" don't
also we Cumberbach fans are different from other fans, it is said that Ben is not really beautiful, himself doesn't believe it.
we see more then the simple blond poster guy! we can see quality we see beauty, because we observe we listen.
we are awesome!!
we are great bad bitches!
but I think Ben who study in a posh British school even if he isn't posh himself he doesn't get the term like in whole sense of it and also apparently he is very shy and had not to much confidence in himself he thinks good actor, not beautiful or sexy.
maybe he needs us to understand openness and new visions of words, of views on beautiful, of empowering and true strength!
i think Martin get that part better, but we are here for Ben to teach him
than we are proud!